Mother's Day

It's Mother's Day tomorrow, time to reflect on how blessed I am.

I had a mother who loved me. She wasn't perfect by any means, and I don't do many things the way she did them, but I marvel at her. She had major health problems much of her life, but she managed to raise nine children, serve in the church, and run her own business. When we were young she made most of our clothes--I have pictures of some of those dresses, made with layer upon layer of ruffles, and it was for four daughters. She had a strong testimony, but had to watch four of her children choose other paths. I know this broke her heart, but it didn't change how she loved or accepted them. She dealt with Dad's dementia and eventual death, only to suffer a stroke herself six months after he died. Her last five years were difficult, but she still served, making over 500 hats for the LDS Church humanitarian effort. I miss her.

I had a mother-in-law who loved me. Larry's mom was so kind, so accepting. I don't think she ever criticized me, although there was plenty to criticize. She planted flowers in our front yard many times, and they died many times, but she didn't throw that in my face. She was willing to set aside her own plans to baby-sit, to the point we told her we'd stop asking if she didn't say no when it wasn't convenient. She and Dad Hill took all the grandkids camping every year--mind-boggling! She was a widow for many years, which was very hard, but she didn't wallow in self-pity. Even when she got Alzheimer's, she remained sweet. I miss her.

I have children who love me. Being a mother brings so much joy. My children all face major challenges, but they face them with fortitude and humor. They each have a desire to do what's right and to help others. They're smart, creative, and fun to be around. I love them.

I have grandchildren who love me. Who would have thought thirteen little spirits could add so much to life? I see them learn from their faithful parents, and my heart swells with gratitude. Each one of them is smart, talented in different areas, and very creative. They all make me laugh. I adore them.